Communication Partner Strategies Beyond Modeling

Modeling, which means using the AAC system yourself while you talk, is the most important thing a partner can do. These strategies build on it. None of them require being an expert. They work best when everyone around the AAC user uses them: family, teachers, aides, and friends.

Wait longer than feels natural

Finding and pressing words takes time, especially with eye gaze or switches. After you ask something or pause, count slowly to ten in your head before you speak again. Look expectantly and keep the device in reach. Filling the silence too soon teaches the person that someone else will talk for them.

Create reasons to communicate

• Put a favorite snack or toy in sight but out of reach.
• Give a small amount, then wait for "more."
• Hand over a jar that is hard to open or a toy without batteries.
• Do something silly or wrong on purpose, like putting a sock on your hand.
• Offer a choice, then pause before giving either option.

Ask fewer test questions

Questions with one right answer ("What color is this?") feel like a quiz. Instead, comment on what is happening and model real reasons to talk: asking for things, saying no, telling about something, asking questions, and joking. "I like that! Your turn" invites a reply without demanding one.

Honor every way someone communicates

Speech, sounds, gestures, signs, facial expressions, and the device all count. Respond to the message, whatever form it comes in, and model how to say it on the device too. If the person presses a word that seems random, treat it as meaningful and respond. This is how they learn that their words have power.

Never take the device away

A device is a person’s voice. Do not remove it as a consequence or keep it put away to protect it. Keep it charged, nearby, and available in every setting, including when someone is upset, because that is when they most need to communicate.

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